Life  is about balance.  A balanced life gives a calmer to life that can only be defined  as a happiness in everything you do and everything you are.  You can not please all of the people all of the time but pleasing the right person at the right time brings harmony to your life.

If you put yourself at the top of the tree and make you the one to please first then you are on the right path.  Listing to your inner self and thinking what you want out of life and where you want to be gives you the first insight into your happier you.

If you make this your centre stage or the middle of your mind map then you can plan the next stage.  Work out what the stumbling blocks are and work out how to overcome them or move them out of the way.

Whats your plan?  What do you want out of life?